Tony,
My 12pc Slingerland set never leaves the house, so this is the old church set that was "retired" earlier this year. I had to fix quite a few things and add my stands, pedals and cymbals to it, so the only Sonor parts are the drums themselves. I could never sing or play any other instrument, so I envy those who can sing and play! I've been playing the drums for at least 45 years, off and on. This "gig" is an annual family party and it's very large (500 people), catered food and open bar, etc... The band's regular drummer is unavailable, so I'm sitting in for him. I haven't played anywhere but church for over 20 years, so this should be different!
My wife plays the piano/keyboard and sings, our daughter plays the piano and cello and our son plays everything and sings. His band is very good. Look up "Dandelion Brigade" on Vimeo and you 'll hear him, he's the big, bearded guy playing the bass... There's a musical instrument in almost every room in our house!!