How do I share files between 8.1 machine and XP machine

I have an orange crossover cable that I have connected to both machines and I set up sharing on both but the Windows XP machine doesn't show the 8.1 machine. I'm trying to pull some movies and music off my 8.1 laptop because I use my XP desktop as a media server of sorts.

I can't figure out how to get them to recognize each other and my connection just says "limited."

Can someone help?

Just like you did in XP. Right click on the folder and in Sharing, choose to share. In Network Connections. Set security for 40/56. Turn off Home Group.

I turned off homegroup but can't find anything about "40/56." I can get them to connect via wireless router but my speed is only 2-3 Mbps and I'm moving 15 GB. When I disable the wireless I can't get anywhere.

Please look at this link:
http://www.eightforums.com/network-...-network-each-cant-see-others.html#post211075